Back to School

In 2005 I decided to take a semester off from college. After starting before I’d even graduated high school, and attending through the summer each year, I’d had enough and even though I was six courses away from completing my bachelor’s degree, I simply needed a little break.

Unfortunately, that one semester turned into about 80 more, so after talking about going back for 21 years, I finally did it, and today was my first of school.

A few folks have asked, “why now?” That’s a fair question. The fact is, in spite of being a college dropout, I’ve enjoyed spending more than a decade in management in an industry where experience is often valued much more than a formal education. By all accounts, I’d consider it to be a success story- A kid who loved trains and got his start as a freight conductor was able to capitalize on his experiences to excel in management. Bravo.

But I didn’t come this far just to come this far.

After attending the recent “Rails to the Future” conference put on by Michigan State University’s Broad College of Business, one of the speakers made a point that resonated with me. She said, “In this industry, people often fail to communicate their career objectives, which stifles their growth potential.”

I ruminated on that thought for a while and realized the value of clearly explaining my goals to the people who could help me achieve them.

Individually, I spoke with my CEO and COO, and in true Dave Foster fashion, I explained the speaker’s point, and bluntly followed it with, “I want your job. Obviously not YOUR job, but I want to know what I need to do to align myself for an opportunity like that when it presents itself.”

Now, you have to keep in mind that I’m in a place where I truly feel more professionally supported than I ever have, so conversations like that feel comfortable to me, and I know they’re going to provide me with honest feedback, but they both provided me with similar messaging. Experience will get you where you are, but experience will only take you so far, and whether it’s right or not, a degree is what sets you apart from someone with a similar set of experiences.

Remember where I said that I feel more supported than I ever have in my career? Earlier this year, my CEO reached out to me and asked if I’d have any reservations about attending Michigan State University’s Railroad Management Certificate Program. The program is designed to expand the breadth of knowledge of any railroad manager by placing them in a large group of industry leaders to think collaboratively while being exposed to behind-the-scenes type experiences at various railroad and industry operations across the nation.

It may surprise some of you to know that I classify myself as an introvert. With that said, I try exceedingly hard to force whatever bit of extrovert I have within me to come out, so in understanding the honor it was for my executive leadership team to believe in me at this level, I humbly accepted the offer to attend.

I didn’t know what to expect, but after the first week of being surrounded with some of the most brilliant railroaders I’d ever had the pleasure to be in the company of, I felt inspired. That’s one thing I’ve learned in my career thus far- You can either be intimidated by people you perceive to be more talented than you, or you can be inspired by them. For me, understanding the necessity to always be better than I was yesterday, I will always choose the latter.

Here’s the kicker- while I was attending the program, Michigan State went on to announce that they were implementing a Masters of Business Administration degree with a Railway Management focus.

There was just one catch… that whole college dropout thing.

So here we are… August 24th, 2026, and I’m finishing what I started in May of 2002, and if I play my cards right, I’ll finally graduate in the spring… but I didn’t come this far just to get this far, so we’ll see what the next chapter holds.

Until then, I can sleep comfortably knowing that I’m showing my daughter the importance of finishing what you started.

Those Lazy Millennials & Zoomers!

I recently saw a post asking, “Is Gen-Z lazy for not wanting to work 40-hours a week?”

While I’m willing to bet that your first thoughts are either “Hell yes!” or “Ok, boomer…” I believe the answer is more complex, but I can empathize with both sides.

The fact of the matter is, as we came out of the COVID-19 pandemic, many people began to realize that we only have a finite number of days on this planet, and fewer and fewer people want to spend those days toiling away for the vast majority of employers that view them as expendable to begin with…

In my lifetime, I’ve been employee 039818, 16, 52, 161361 and 353, but ultimately nobody’s epitaph reads “dedicated employee,” they read things like “devoted father,” “caring mother,” or “beloved brother/sister,” so what’s the value in feeling prideful about working an excessive number of hours unless you’re doing something you absolutely love?

While I consider myself fortunate to have found a great work / life balance doing something I enjoy, I previously spent 12 years working for one of North America’s largest railroads, and although the money was absolutely fantastic ($160,000/yr for a job that requires only a high-school education), I got to hear about my daughter’s first steps, first words, and a myriad of other “firsts” through telephone conversations with my wife from a dingy hotel room. Those are missed memories that I’ll never get back, and for what? So I could buy a nice car? Have the newest cell phone? Go out to eat more than was necessary?

Thinking back further, I can still recall a younger version of myself that bragged about working 28 days in a December while I was at Guitar Center. I wore it like a badge of honor, but you know what I wasn’t doing? Spending time with my friends, and actually enjoying my life. I wore that wasted time (at minimum wage) as a badge of honor. Factoring in that that 1 of those 3 days off was Christmas, I now find it all a bit embarrassing that I had so sorely misplaced my priorities.

Ultimately, I believe we’re so brainwashed into believing that success is measured by earning potential, or material possessions that we lose sight of the fact that tomorrow isn’t promised.

We only view those that are fighting for a less-than-40-hour-workweek as being “lazy” because we’re comparing them to our own experiences- what we’ve had to endure, or the jobs and/or careers we’ve chosen, but life doesn’t have to be difficult for someone else just because it was for us, and shame on us for believing it should. 

I’d like to believe that those following in our footsteps can have a better road because of us, and as far as I’m concerned, laziness is a measure of the effort you put in while you’re at work, not the number of hours you work.

Grind all you want to, and chase that paper, but don’t chastise someone else for having different priorities than you. ♥- DMFF